How to be a GirlBoss in 2019

Hearing your heels click on the floor sounds like power.
-Anonymous

1. START RIGHT NOW

I don't know when you will be reading this but if by any chance you are reading this article in 2018 (the time that I posted it) than you can start right away. The key to this is that you have to make peace with yourself in order to accept the change that you want (in case you do want to change). Now how do you make peace with the past?!- Honestly the only way that worked for me was to have a little chat with myself about it, I know it sounds weird but it might help you too. Now I did remember for the last time all those bad embarrassing things which I tried so hard to forget but after that time I never did think for them ever again. Enough is enough! No more holding back at past mistakes. In case anything doesn't work than remember that "At that time saying those words, making those actions seemed right."

2. EDUCATION

Whenever school is mentioned we automatically turn off and I ain't gonna lie school isn't really my favorite thing either but when it comes to being a Leader and a BossLady you have to be educated. Just think of this way. 10-15 by now when your kids will come and ask you to help them with their homework and not being able to help them just seems so bad and not so great. It doesn't mean you have o be perfect on everything but try to choose a good career that you will love an that will bring you money in order to accomplish the materialistic needs.
I personally have a couple of careers in my mind and one of them is also Political Science and the main reason why is that I want to be able to make a better change in everybody's life especially women's because unfortunately in my country women right's aren't that good either.

2.1 Essentials

Bullet Journal

Makeup Kit

3.Appearance

Everybody has a different style. When I think about a GirlBoss I think about a classy Lady that can do everything she wants because even the look she chose shows her confidence. For me heels, dresses, makeup, suits, necklaces show so much of my confidence but there are days when a GirlBoss feels like sweatpants are the best thing. As long as we are confident and comfortable with our looks.

Outfits

Makeup

 

HOW TO BE CONFIDENT?!

Now that we had a little small talk about the "important" steps, it comes the actual important part. The Confidence . When it comes to confidence there is something you need to know.

You either own it, or you don't.

And sadly we do have to face some unpleasant situations through out our life which may lead to us loosing our self. You may think that once you loose it you can't find it again but if you set yourself the goal of becoming a GirlBoss you have to keep in mind that arguing/blaming yourself leads you to a "SELFWAR". There are way for you to gain it back tho.

Obviously you have to convince yourself that you will gain confidence and honestly half of the job is done.
For more check my article  WAYS TO GROW YOUR CONFIDENCE IN 2019

1. Look up at your idols

Here is a list of people I look up to:

Blair Waldorf

Spencer Hastings

Lily Collins

Taylor Swift

Demi Lovato

Little Mix

Rihanna

Honestly these are some of my idols that I look up to, I did use the "Fictional" version of Leighton and Troian but their characters really inspire me a lot.

The trick here is repeat this to yourself from time to time:

Remember, if "Blair Waldorf" could get up after all the difficult situations like a queen, so can you.

2.Speak what's on your mind

Don't agree with people just because the majority of them say that f.e. "Pink is only for girls", if your opinion is different be brave and disagree and give your opinion. It will be hard until you do it once, then after a couple of times you will automatically get used to this new good habit that will encourage your confidence as well.

3. Do more of what makes you happy

Lately writing articles has really been my new favorite thing to do and it really makes me happy to sit down, find inspiration, write down while listening to music. It's those little things that make you complete and give you power to get up and enjoy life.

Personally I am a Strong Introvert but lately going out with friends/family and taking long walks or roadtrips has really given me a higher level of selflove and confidence.

4. Fake it 'til you make it

The title says it itself. As I said earlier after awhile you will automatically get used to these new changes on your life and before realizing you will become confident.

This is it for this article, hopefully I did help you a bit.